Sunday, May 31, 2015


THIS WEEK LINDA AND I WILL CELEBRATE thirty-eight years of marriage, and to be honest with you, it’s not at all what I thought it would be!  Whoa! Wait a minute, put down the rocks! Let me explain.

When I saw my beautiful bride walking down that long aisle at Garden Grove Community Church on June 3, 1977, I remember thinking to myself, “What is this I am getting into?”  It wasn’t a question of doubt; I REALLY wanted to be married to Linda! It wasn’t a question of fear; I knew this would be a great adventure! It was more a question of how am I going to be the husband that Linda deserves and what is this thing called marriage all about?

As the title describes marriage is not what I had planned, it’s not that it’s bad, it’s the fact that I had nothing planned.  I was just in love. I knew that Linda was the one for me. And I was pretty sure she felt the same way toward me. I didn’t really know what was next, and I could have never planned or guessed, or even imagined the great life God had planned for us.

Moving, pastoring, schooling, children, grand-children, ups and downs, joys and sorrows, great memories and a couple we’d like to forget. Yes, I can most definitely say, “It’s not what I had planned,” even if I had been smart enough 38 years ago to plan something.

You know, I’m OK with that.  I’m OK with what God set before us. Of course, what makes it all OK is that God has granted me a wonderful gift in the person of Linda Joann Kay. If one is to take a journey whose steps are not always planned, a man could not ask for a better journey partner, wife and friend. For this I am thankful!

Sunday, May 24, 2015


SO GOES THE LIE: “Sticks and Stones can Break My Bones, but Words Can Never Hurt Me.”  In reality, the little ditty should be, “Sticks and Stones Can Break My Bones and Words can Really Kill Me . . . over and over and over!”

Let’s be honest, the hurtful things that people say to us, even in jest, can stick with us long after they first passed through our ears and penetrated our hearts. In fact, some of those words can last a lifetime. The bruises and breaks that come from sticks and stones may last awhile, but the cutting knives of hurtful words can pierce the soul leaving scars which forever mark us. Yes, we can learn to live with these scars, but they seem to be there as a constant reminder.

Words are powerful. They can hurt. They can heal. Therefore, let us choose wisely how we will speak to each other.  Consider God’s Word to each of us as we seek to live in community.

Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. (Colossians 4:6)

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Ephesians 4:29-32)

And finally,

Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. . . . Instead, be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Ephesians 5:1-2, 18-20)

Sunday, May 17, 2015


BEING A CHRISTIAN IN AMERICA carries very little cost. But it should! Considering the cost that our Lord and Savior paid for us upon the cross our commitment should be high.

This week I read a blog post from Greg Strand (Director of Biblical Theology and Credentialing, for the Evangelical Free Church of America) and I was greatly convicted by what he wrote about the cost of commitment, specifically referring to the high cost involved for those who are willing to be baptized into Christ’s Church located in Asia.

Our greatest fear in getting baptized revolves around embarrassment of standing dripping wet in front of a large gathering and mumbling out some word about our belief in, and desire to, follow Jesus. Not a high cost factor, if you ask me. But think of our brothers and sisters in Asia and consider what Strand writes.

A Christian missions agency in South Asia, listed a series of questions that church leaders must ask new believers who are considering baptism. These are the seven questions asked to help determine a new convert’s readiness to follow Christ:
1. Are you willing to leave home and lose the blessing of your father?
2. Are you willing to lose your job?
3. Are you willing to go to the village and those who persecute you, forgive them, and share the love of Christ with them?
4. Are you willing to give an offering to the Lord?
5. Are you willing to be beaten rather than deny your faith?
6. Are you willing to go to prison?
7. Are you willing to die for Jesus?

“If the new convert answers yes to all of these questions, then leaders invite that person to sign on the bottom of the paper that of their own free will they have decided to follow Jesus. But here’s the risk: if a new convert signs the paper and is caught by the government, he or she will spend three years behind bars. The one who did the evangelizing faces six years in prison. If you were being baptized, would you sign? If you were the pastor, would you perform the baptism? Would you consider it a joy and privilege to do so?”

Now, that’s paying a high cost of commitment.

Sunday, May 10, 2015


THE OLDER I GET the more I am convinced that my mom (many moms for that matter) had a special relationship with the Holy Spirit. Just as He knows all about me and what I am up to at all times, so did my mom. Just as the Holy Spirit both convicts of sin and comforts the sinner, thus it was true for my mom. And just as there are times when I can feel the Holy Spirit’s presence and I can see His work in me, so it is with my mom. Not that she is in some way looking down from heaven and directing my steps, but rather her many years of work and prayers are still at work in me.

My mom was not perfect and I have not met a perfect mother yet. (Except for my wife and the mother of my children, of course. A man has to eat!) But the truth of the matter is that my mom, and many of the moms I have known and even called “mom,” were always at the work of seeking to ensure perfection in their children and their homes. Sure, they failed often, (they are not the Holy Spirit in the flesh) but they often sought to give their best even at great cost to themselves.

Therefore, on this hallmark of a day called Mother’s Day, I would like to offer this blessing to all the moms and those who stand in the place of moms to kids in need of a mother’s love:

Gracious Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,
I beseech that You would bless the mothers of this world
as they seek to care for those You have entrusted to them.
May You grant them;
wisdom as they guide,
strength as they serve,
compassion as they care,
and courage as they protect their children.
May they know Your power, peace, protection,
and most of all, Your great love.

Sunday, May 03, 2015


BEAUTIFULLY SCRIPTED on the back wall of the Sanctuary are two phrases; “Speak Truth. Love Well.”  This is not the new Vision or Mission Statement for our church, but the reminder of how our lives are to be lived within community. Whether that community is inside or outside the walls of Felton Bible Church.

I was first introduced to these two phrases while watching the weekly video podcast, The Table presented by the Hendricks Center at Dallas Theological Seminary. Their phrase reads; “Teach Truth. Love Well,” and is more fitting for the seminary setting. When I first read the words I thought how important they were to the work of shepherding God’s people. As a pastor, I am called to teach God’s truth well, (2 Timothy 2:15) and to love God’s people well, as exemplified in and though the life of Jesus Christ. (John 13:34; John 15). As I further contemplated the phrase I realized that this is the call to the church as a whole.  I all of our lives we are called to speak God’s truth in the midst of loving all people well.

This, of course, requires some preparatory work on our part, first, knowing the truth of God well enough to speak it out. We do not have to wait until we know it perfectly, we are called to speak that which we know and to continue to grow in His Word so that we shall move from spiritual breast-fed infants to spiritual adults able to feast upon the banquet of God’s Word. (1 Peter 2:2, 1 Corinthians 3, 2 Timothy 3:14, Hebrews 5:11-15)

Second, we must love as we have been loved by Christ, which includes of course forgiving as we have been forgiven. (Matthew 6:9-15, 2 Corinthians 5:17-21, John 13:34; John 15

Both these phrases work in tandem with each other for we cannot love well without speaking the truth, and we cannot speak truth without loving well. Therefore, my challenge to all of us as we leave the sanctuary each morning that we rededicate the sanctuary of God within us to speak truth and to love well to the praise of God’s glory and the furtherance of His Kingdom.

May these four words become both our invocation and benediction, to draw us in to worship and to lead us out to service.